Many shy men feel uncomfortable and hesitant to talk to girls in bars or any other public place and as a result, they remain single. In case you have studied in Boys’ School, talking to the girls openly becomes even more difficult for you. In case you visit a bar and see a lovely girl sitting. Your heart will melt and you will have an urge to at least talk to her. But shyness will ruin the game for you.
Build confidence – It is believed that shy people cannot engage in any conversation easily due to shyness. Girls never prefer to date a person who has low confidence. If you are shy but can build confidence, then half of the dilemma of approaching a girl in a bar can be over.
Have a great sense of humor – Girls love people who look happy and laugh a lot. Sometimes the Sense of Humor plays a great role for men who speak less often. If you have an amazing sense of humor then it can be your biggest strength. If not, then you should try to make the surrounding atmosphere mock in the light. If you succeed in making her laugh or even smile, then the road ahead can be easier for you.
Give compliments to her – You don’t need to worry if you are too shy. One can win the heart of a girl just by praising her. According to research, girls love to hear their compliment very well. If you admire their sense of humor, dress or look, they will be surely interested in you. Start praising them and tangle them in your words.
Ask her out again – If you are successful in approaching a girl in a bar. Do not forget to ask for the next time she will meet. If you want to date her, then possibilities will remain only when you can meet that person again. In several cases, the person in front of you can be very pleased with you and she might be more interested in spending time with you. At the second meeting, one can easily overcome the shortcomings of the first meeting. This can give you a second chance.
If you adopt these tips, despite your shy nature you can get along with many girls easily. By removing your shortcomings, you can make your very own special place in the heart of a girl.